RAISE YOUR EXPECTATIONS
for what you're worth, what you deserve and what you can achieve.
Then commit to CREATING your new spanky reality with the daily thoughts, feelings habits and actions instead of just mentally-masturbating about it happening at some point in the future when all conditions are perfect.
Conditions are never perfect.
The best bit about this is that YOU ARE THE CONDITION CREATOR for your life, so make sure it's not a life you're settling for.